Things You Realize Only After Marriage
A survey was conducted among 287 married Japanese woman.
The results revealed that approximately 70％ of them "regretted choosing thier husbands."
Furthermore, more than half stated that "If they could lice their lives once again, they would not marry their current husbands."
The man reason for this regret for many women is related to "money."
Significant sources of dissatisfaction include low salaries, poor spending habits and a failure of to plan for the household budget.
Financial issues gradually make daily life more difficult and lead to increasing levels of stress.
There are also aspects that was unnoticed before marriage.
Such as, the extent of help with housework, attitudes during disagreement and relationship between extended family.
Many women said "I only truly understand my husband's personality after we living together."
Even without major conflicts, a constant stream of minor frustrations can wear down one's patience.
Furthermore, about physical appearance, many felt they "cared too much about looks before getting married."
(the looks) doesn't solve problems related to housework or finances.
The prevailing opinion is that in married life, appearance isn't actually that important.
Most women aren't necessarily looking for a perfect man.
Instead, they value "stability" the feeling of being able to stay together comfortably in long run.
Realizing this, only happens after marriage has already begun.
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